Parenting babies do not just feed, drink, and toys. Babies need attention include massaged, caressed, and loved. The result he will be healthy, happy, and confident. Condition, a massage is the parent or the person nearest the baby. Could grandfathers, grandmothers, or baby sitter, but not a therapist or masseur.
Why is that massage is a parent or the person nearest the baby? According to Rina Poerwadi a certified infant massage instructor (certified infant massage instructor), this situation occurs in the learning process to both the baby and parents. When a massage, a baby learns to recognize parents' voices, smell, and touch. If the process is correct, when massaged, your baby will feel safe and comfortable. No thrashing let alone to cry loudly. Babies and parents working together. There is no element of coercion, and both enjoy being together.
At the time of massage created an atmosphere of togetherness and ligature love (intimacy and bonding) between parent and child. Attention and affection felt by the infant's parents directly. Events intimacy and love this tie straps will be recorded by both, for life. Touch and massage this love will be the most effective means of communication between parents and children when one day the emotional tension between them.
Massage also provides an opportunity both for each expression. Although babies can not express a clear intention to parents, body language is a form of direct communication. Are clearly visible in the face of the little joy, confidence, and feeling relaxed. During the massage the tiny, you would have to maintain eye contact, kissing, caressing it gently, including invited talk. This action will maintain the closeness of your relationship with your baby. Although it seems merely to massage, you've increased the emotional attachment with him.
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